Narcissists, what they don't want you to know. Survivors of narcissists (npd) and psychopaths or an abusive partner have gone through hell. It is so hard to understand because first you are love bombed, which hits you like a drug. .
There are red flags and they begin to unravel from day one. They are the most charming, beautiful and amazing person you have ever met. They are attentive and the most perfect relationship ever. The abuse starts slow, small things. Sometimes it begins with a slight twinge of jealousy that shows. The issue is that as society we are programmed to think this is love and passion. Trust your instincts and your gut. There usually are red flags but due to the love bombing many times they are ignored.
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Narcissistic abuse is just the whole sum of any type of abuse: emotional abuse, financial, physical, mental and or even neglect. There are no boundaries with domestic violence or abuse. It can happen anywhere and to anyone. I wanted to share my story to touch lives and show that there is hope. There is help. The cycle will not stop and people need to recognize it. Which is hard due to the trauma bond that is linked with the abused and abuser. Furthermore, gaslightening can make you believe things that aren't true as a victim. The other thing is there is a shame and guilt attached to abuse and the victim. The narrative or language has to change. Not why did they stay, why did he/she abuse? There is hope and there is help. You are not alone!
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I want to SHOW you how to move past pain, PTSD and do so in life coaching sessions. You are magic and it is time to shine through your soul. This is your life, your moment don't limit yourself. NO FEAR. Focus, determination and pure self-love will move you to that next step of your life. Through my own adversities I take you down the rabbit hole of how I fell but picked myself back up and overcame any type of heartbreak or hardship. We are living within a quantum field of endless possibilities. Relationships and love, not just for others but ourselves is the new true meaning of life. Stay motivated and inspired because you inspire and motivate. Be mindful of your souls path.
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My love advice is to start with you first. Happy New Year!!! Make this your best year yet. And don’t forget: I make weekly uploads on Tuesdays and Fridays :)
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We all have a story and mine started from the moment I opened my brown eyes. My childhood was not necessarily the easiest. I grew up with a mother who mentally, emotionally and physically abused my brothers and I. Coping mechanism kept me alive however it also eventually lead me to be: in a gang, pregnant at 17, a drop-out, jail, married and divorced. The trauma didn’t end there as my mother and I cut ties only to end with her dying of cancer. The most heartbreaking thing that occurred was my brother committing suicide. I decided long ago these adversities would not define me. I am sharing my story of being a victim, moving to survivor into a WHOLE person. I want to show you how to as well!!
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